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Here’s 3 reasons why Tantra can be the missing puzzle piece for successful entrepreneurs. Especially those who have a big mission but have not accessed their fullest potential yet:

This is for you if you have a desire for high performance, deep impact and personal excellence. 

So often I talk to peop...

What do William Shakespeare, Nicola Tesla, George Washington and Abraham Lincoln have in common? I’ll give you a guess.. it has something to do with what happens in the bedroom. 

If you know about the work I do with leaders and high performers you might have a clue. 

The answer to that question is: th...

I think it’s time for a change. It’s time for society to embrace what is happening in the bedroom as a natural and important part of life. Why? 

I find that most people have NO idea how the connection with their pleasure is affecting every single aspect in their lives.

It affects your entire life. 

Thi...

Often brilliant minds can have a hard time thriving in intimacy. This is because mind-blowing intimacy does not come from the mind. 

This is not something that we can figure out from only a mental level.

It’s a way of being that is embodied. 
From the body and not from the mind. 

This is not about logic...

If you are serious about high performance and being the best version of yourself you can be, you cannot leave what happens in the bedroom out of the picture. Why? It’s not what you think...

This is a very intimate conversation and it’s an area of our life where there is incredible untapped potential....

It doesn't matter what exactly you DO in the bedroom. It matters how you ARE. What do I mean by that?

Most of the resources you find for men around intimacy and pleasure are about how to please a woman.

It stays on the surface level. 

And sure, that’s important to some degree but this on itself can kee...

There seems to be this belief out there that great intimacy ‘just happens”. 

And sure yes, sometimes that is the case. But when you TRULY want to experience everything that you are capable of… this doesn’t just happen by itself. 

We have to release the layers that are holding us back and activate our ...

Many people want deeper connections, more depth in relationships and to feel free to be themselves in intimacy & love. But we don’t talk about these things. 

Especially men. There is no place for it.

And on top of that there is all this shame and guilt.

I’ve been there.

I didn’t know how to open, how to...

Let’s talk about shame. This can be a tricky one because the shame itself likes to hide.

We don’t like to talk about certain things. We don't want to share it because it is so shameful.

Shame is one of the most debilitating emotions that we can experience. And it seems to come up a lot in the area of ...

Everyone comes to the point in their lives where something is not working when it comes to love and intimacy. 

I have never met a person who did not have that experience in one way or another. Usually in a significant way. 

And I have talked to thousands of people on this topic. 

Does that surprise you...

About 12 years ago I knew 2 things: A painful one, that I am totally disconnected from feeling pleasure.

But I also knew that I would do anything to feel connected to my body and experience this deep intimacy that my friends were talking about.

Sometimes I would think that there was something wrong wi...

Do you have an ambitious personality? If so, you probably have a tendency to put a lot of pressure on yourself. And in line with the work that I’m wondering… how does that show up in the bedroom? 

It’s a very personal question but an important one to reflect on. 

It is so important to learn how we can...