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14 years ago I graduated with a Masters degree in Psychology. But instead of going the traditional route of becoming a psychologist I did something radically different.  

Something that a lot of people did not understand at that time. 

I decided to go live in the jungle of Asia to...

Not many people are fully aware that exploring their potential in intimacy can bring more alignment, presence, and success in their career. 

This is common example of a conversation I have: 

“What you I do?”

 “So you are sex coach? Is that...

The energy you feel in the bedroom is the same life force that supports you in your sense of confidence, in your expression as a leader, in the ways which you love, it propels your will, it fuels your purpose. It is all the same energy, that life force. 

So when you have limitations in your...

Reaching out for support on the topic of love & intimacy doesn’t mean that there is anything wrong with you, your body or your relationship. 

To me it shows a person who is committed to living life to the fullest and someone who understands that sexuality and intimacy is at the core...

Are you at this place where things are... ok. You do your daily to do’s, you go to work, maybe you meet your partner and it is ‘nice’. Things are ‘fine’...

What happens in the bedroom is ok but probably it has lost it’s passion after a certain period of time....

Many people want deeper connections, more depth in relationships and to feel free to be themselves in intimacy & love. But we don’t talk about these things. 

Especially men. There is no place for it.

And on top of that there is all this shame and guilt.

I’ve been there.

I...

Isn’t sex natural? Why should I have to do anything about it? This is something that people tell me often. But...

Being healthy is natural and if you don't do anything about your health you don't just stay healthy, right?

You have to be conscious of what you eat and your exercise.

You should...

When people look back at their lives at their death bed it is not the success and material goods that they have cultivated. It’s their relationships they cultivated. 

Yes it is valuable to cultivate a feeling of freedom and abundance. 

But very often love and intimacy is something...

There seems to be this stigma that reaching out for support around love & intimacy means you are ‘broken’. However... 

In other areas of life it’s ‘normal’ to ask for guidance and support.  

But for some reason when it comes to intimacy, we...

It’s very common to be a very ambitious person and one day waking up realizing that your love & relationships are not thriving as much as your career does. 

So often I hear people say: 

“I am not living my potential in love and have no idea where to start to make this...

Something that people tell me a lot is:

Isn’t that what happens in the bedroom something natural? Why should I have to do anything about it?

Well.. being healthy is natural and if you don't do anything about your health you don't just stay healthy, right?

You have to be conscious of what you...

What do I do?

So you are sex coach? Is that even a thing?

You mean, you tell people how to have intimacy?!

No thank you, I don’t have any issues.

Who needs that, really?

Yes, I coach people on the topics of relationships, intimacy and pleasure. 

Not on how to navigate a threesome, what...