Why I Left My Career As a Psychologist And Studied Tantra Instead

Many people want deeper connections, more depth in relationships and to feel free to be themselves in intimacy & love. But we don’t talk about these things. 

Especially men. There is no place for it.

And on top of that there is all this shame and guilt.

I’ve been there.

I didn’t know how to open, how to feel. I was stuck performing. I thought everything has to go along through a certain script. I didn’t really know how to ask for what I needed or what I was feeling.

I was terrified.

But this was standing in the way of experiencing deep intimacy. I couldn’t keep on going the same way.

When I found a space where I found safe enough to be open and be seen everything changed. And it required presence and love with myself and from others.

Something I want you to know is that just talking about what is holding you back doesn’t bring real transformation. 

Positive thinking on itself won’t change you.  Please, get out of your mind, it’s not your thoughts that need your attention, it’s your nervous system and your body is the gateway to your nervous system. To have real change, you have to work with your nervous system and create new neural-pathways in your brain.

Tantra and working with your sexual energy in order to change has been the most powerful method I’ve found for rewriting the brain and creating transformation in your life. That’s why I am so in love with what I do. 

This is the reason why I left my career as a psychologist and decided to dive a level deeper and integrate Tantra in my work. 

Currently I help people thrive in their lives through a mentorship program that combines modern neuroscience and ancient tantra. This 1-on-1 coaching program is designed specifically to give you the relational education we never had. 

If you have a desire for more depth in relationships, to feel more confident with partners, to bring back the passion in a relationship, feel free to reach out and I'd be happy to see how I can support. I have one more spot available for this month. 

I’m curious what reading this brings up for you.