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I’ve talked to thousands of people about what is not working in love and intimacy. Yet, they always seem to think they are the only one. 

Everyone comes at a point in their lives where something is not working when it comes to intimacy. 

Does that surprise you? 

To me, it is not surprising at all. This...

The stories about what happens in the bedroom and what it ‘should’ look like are messing with your pleasure. There are so many harmful and limiting beliefs out there on this topic. 

What does this look like? I will give you some examples. 

Being goal-oriented is a big one. Are you clouded by the urgen...

Over and over again I see that when someone takes action to thrive in intimacy and relationships, their business thrives with them. That’s because we are working with the energy of creation: our sexual energy. 

It’s the energy that rules our world. It rules many things that we do subconsciously. 

This...

This is one of the great tricks to feeling fulfilled in the bedroom. It’s probably not what you think because it’s quite counterintuitive. 

What I have seen over and over again is that if you're always trying to make it amazing and you can't let it be average or bad, you'll never get the heights of t...

Do you think it's strange to talk so openly about sexuality? Let’s think about that again… 

Our intimate life is at the very core of who we are. It affects everything.

So when something is not thriving as much as it could in this area of your life, it affects everything. 

It affects your level of confi...

Here’s 3 reasons why Tantra can be the missing puzzle piece for successful entrepreneurs. Especially those who have a big mission but have not accessed their fullest potential yet:

This is for you if you have a desire for high performance, deep impact and personal excellence. 

So often I talk to peop...

I think it’s time for a change. It’s time for society to embrace what is happening in the bedroom as a natural and important part of life. Why? 

I find that most people have NO idea how the connection with their pleasure is affecting every single aspect in their lives.

It affects your entire life. 

Thi...

If you are serious about high performance and being the best version of yourself you can be, you cannot leave what happens in the bedroom out of the picture. Why? It’s not what you think...

This is a very intimate conversation and it’s an area of our life where there is incredible untapped potential....

It doesn't matter what exactly you DO in the bedroom. It matters how you ARE. What do I mean by that?

Most of the resources you find for men around intimacy and pleasure are about how to please a woman.

It stays on the surface level. 

And sure, that’s important to some degree but this on itself can kee...

There seems to be this belief out there that great intimacy ‘just happens”. 

And sure yes, sometimes that is the case. But when you TRULY want to experience everything that you are capable of… this doesn’t just happen by itself. 

We have to release the layers that are holding us back and activate our ...

Many people want deeper connections, more depth in relationships and to feel free to be themselves in intimacy & love. But we don’t talk about these things. 

Especially men. There is no place for it.

And on top of that there is all this shame and guilt.

I’ve been there.

I didn’t know how to open, how to...

Let’s talk about shame. This can be a tricky one because the shame itself likes to hide.

We don’t like to talk about certain things. We don't want to share it because it is so shameful.

Shame is one of the most debilitating emotions that we can experience. And it seems to come up a lot in the area of ...