This Is One Of The Great Tricks To Feeling Fulfilled In The Bedroom
Jun 12, 2022
This is one of the great tricks to feeling fulfilled in the bedroom. It’s probably not what you think because it’s quite counterintuitive.
What I have seen over and over again is that if you're always trying to make it amazing and you can't let it be average or bad, you'll never get the heights of truly mind blowing intimacy.
When you are always trying to make it look like what you see in movies, where everyone has a fabulous time and everyone always feels pleasure… it’s incredibly limiting.
You can’t open up to the full potential of free and unleashed intimate experiences if you're trying to shove yourself or your partner into a box of what it is supposed to look like.
So allowing it to just be weird sometimes and let that be ok.
Allowing it to just be average sometimes and let that be ok.
Too many people put way too much pressure for it to always be amazing ALL the time.
What this does is that it is creating a goal-oriented way of being and it disconnects you from what is actually alive and true at the moment.
It can take you away from what exactly needs to be happening
in the NOW.
The key is that you want to practice to be aware and in tune with what’s appropriate and alive in every single moment. This is a practice of learning how to get out of your head and into your body. Which is something that Tantra can help with a lot.
Being a great lover doesn’t have that much to do with tips and tricks. It’s much more about the ability to be present and show up in this state of being. To be connected to yourself, your body and whoever you are with.
If this speaks to you, let me know! I'm curious to hear what reading this brings up in you.
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