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Often when I tell people about the work that I do they are very quick to say: “Oh no no no thanks there is nothing wrong in my love and intimate life!” 

But let’s be real..

Even if things are already good, you have barely scratched the surface of what is possible.

And you probably don’t even know it. 

O...

Who knew that learning about your potential in intimacy can actually bring more alignment, presence and success in your career? 

These two are not as separate as you might think.

Not many people know that there is a strong connection between the two. 

Why is this the case? 

Well, when we work with intim...

“Life has gotten too busy to make time for intimacy”. This is something I hear from people all the time. 

And yes, I get the reality that most high achieving individuals live very, very busy lives.

Often there’s children in the mix that bring even more responsibilities and less free time. 

Stress gets ...

When people look back at their lives at their death bed it is not the success and material goods that they have cultivated. It’s their relationships they cultivated. 

Yes it is valuable to cultivate a feeling of freedom and abundance. 

But very often love and intimacy is something that is forgotten ab...

There seems to be this stigma that reaching out for support around love & intimacy means you are ‘broken’. However... 

In other areas of life it’s ‘normal’ to ask for guidance and support.  

But for some reason when it comes to intimacy, we are expected to have it all figured out. 

 Think about t...

“I feel confident in the boardroom but when it comes to the bedroom it is a completely different story.”  This is something I hear from people every day. 

And it’s not surprising.  

It’s very easy to have your biggest focus to be on career and work and have love and intimacy take the backseat. 

But ver...

Our world is full of conditioning and programming around pleasure and intimacy. When we grow up nobody talks about it. It makes us feel that it is not ok to talk about intimacy.

That it is not ok to be a sexual being.
That our desires are bad or dangerous. 

Often there is shame and judgement. 

We never...

What would happen if you could show more of your true self to your lover?

We all have different wounds that prevent this deep connection that we are truly longing for.

It takes a LOT of courage to show up completely authentically. Because this fear of rejection and abandonment is real.

What if we show ...

Something that people tell me a lot is:

Isn’t that what happens in the bedroom something natural? Why should I have to do anything about it?

Well.. being healthy is natural and if you don't do anything about your health you don't just stay healthy, right?

You have to be conscious of what you eat and yo...

What do I do?

So you are sex coach? Is that even a thing?

You mean, you tell people how to have intimacy?!

No thank you, I don’t have any issues.

Who needs that, really?

Yes, I coach people on the topics of relationships, intimacy and pleasure. 

Not on how to navigate a threesome, what kinds of positions ...

Something happened during a powerful conversation with some girlfriends last week.

We were talking about what we deep down really desire from a partner.

So this is interesting… 

It turns out…

One of the biggest cravings for women is the question:
Can you handle all of me?

If I am fully expressed as all of...