Do You Tell Yourself There Is Nothing Wrong In The Bedroom?
May 02, 2022
Often when I tell people about the work that I do they are very quick to say: “Oh no no no thanks there is nothing wrong in my love and intimate life!”
But let’s be real..
Even if things are already good, you have barely scratched the surface of what is possible.
And you probably don’t even know it.
One of the many things that Tantra taught me is that you don’t know what you don’t know.
There is a whole new world that is yet to be discovered.
There’s experiences, pleasure and connection available that will shatter your whole idea of what sex is supposed to look like.
Something way beyond the goal oriented approach of reaching for a peak of pleasure.
If you are ok with your intimate life simple being ‘good’. I am here to share with you that there is much more to be experienced. And know that often when things are good, you are in a dangerous comfort zone that never allows you to fully thrive.
Sometimes it’s a blessing in disguise when something is not working, because that motivates you to change something and this can be a catalyst to access something you never thought possible.
And if we get even more real.. for most people there are many things that get in the way of fulfilling intimacy.
It’s just that nobody talks about it.
Just think of the factors of busy lifestyles, stress, pressure to perform, lack of valuable education around this topic, shame, guilt, and the list goes on…
We have been set up not to thrive in this area of your life.
It is not your fault.
Reaching out for support doesn’t mean that there is anything wrong with you, your body or your relationship.
To me it shows a person who is committed to living life to the fullest and who understands that sexuality and intimacy is at the core of it.
It’s a force that ripples through everything we do.
Do you agree?
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