Why Paying Attention to Sexual Energy Matters

Something that people tell me a lot is: “Isn’t that what happens in the bedroom something natural? Why should I have to do anything about it?”

Well.. being healthy is natural and if you don't do anything about your health you don't just stay healthy, right?

You have to be conscious of what you eat and your exercise.

You should be conscious of a whole variety of things in our modern lifestyle in order to stay healthy and physically fit.

It's the exact same thing with what is happening in our intimate lives. 

So one of the reasons our world is struggling on this topic is because people have been given this idea that you shouldn't ever have to do anything, your intimate life is just fine.

And they don't really recognize the degree to which that's creating intimacy issues.

So many couples fall in love and they just let intimacy happen that works for the first six months, maybe a year if you're lucky and then it doesn't work anymore.

You have to do things to keep the passion alive or else it's going to fall flat and many marriages die.

So many people end up cheating, so many relationships fall apart, even if they are really good relationships because people don't understand this about their sexuality.

Paying attention to intimacy is crucial because it is not something that happens automatically in a marriage. It requires intentional time and attention. Ignoring intimacy or brushing it under the rug can lead to unresolved issues, misunderstandings, and emotional disconnection, which can strain the relationship. 

And it's not just about the immediate impact. Intimacy issues also have a long-term effect on your mental health. It can lead to feelings of insecurity, low self-esteem, or even depression. It can also strain your relationship with your partner, causing tension and conflicts that spill over into other areas of your life.

All of this can take a toll on your overall well-being, making it harder to thrive in different aspects of your life, including your professional success. Does that sound familiar? 

We have to admit that we are sexual beings and that we are wired for intimacy. This is a deep, primal impulse and there is nothing wrong with it. We have to admit to ourselves though, that when something is not thriving on this topic, it ripples through all that we do.

I'd love to empower you to keep your relationship passionate. Feel free to reach out.