What Nobody Talks About..

Often when I tell people about the work that I do they are very quick to say: “Oh no no no thanks, there is nothing wrong in my love and intimate life!”

But let’s be real... 

Even if things are already good, you have barely scratched the surface of what is possible. And you probably don’t even know it. 

One of the many things that Tantra taught me is that you don’t know what you don’t know. 

There is a whole new world that is yet to be discovered. There are experiences, pleasure, and connection available that will shatter your whole idea of what sex is supposed to look like. Something way beyond the goal-oriented approach of reaching for a peak of pleasure.

If you are okay with your intimate life simply being ‘good’, I am here to share with you that there is much more to be experienced. And know that often when things are good, you are in a dangerous comfort zone that never allows you to fully thrive. 

Sometimes it’s a blessing in disguise when something is not working because that motivates you to change something, and this can be a catalyst to access something you never thought possible.

And if we get even more real... for most people, there are many things that get in the way of fulfilling intimacy. 

It’s just that nobody talks about it. Just think of the factors of busy lifestyles, stress, pressure to perform, lack of valuable education around this topic, shame, guilt, and the list goes on… 

We have been set up not to thrive in this area of your life. It is not your fault.

Reaching out for support doesn’t mean that there is anything wrong with you, your body, or your relationship. To me, it shows a person who is committed to living life to the fullest and who understands that sexuality and intimacy are at the core of it. It’s a force that ripples through everything we do.

There seems to be this stigma that reaching out for support around love and intimacy means you are ‘broken’. However...

In other areas of life, it’s ‘normal’ to ask for guidance and support. But for some reason, when it comes to intimacy, we are expected to have it all figured out. Think about this:

We go to the gym to stay healthy.

We go to university to learn about certain topics.

We hire business consultants to thrive in our career.

But when it comes to intimacy, we are expected to figure it out all ourselves. Most people have barely scratched the surface of what is possible, even if things are already very good. Which is not surprising because:

We have never been taught anything beyond STDs and fear-induced narratives.

The resources that we have access to are very superficial.

There is a lot of shame and judgment around this topic.

Most of us learn from porn.

Nobody talks about it...

What this all means to me is that there is so much unlocked potential. I am committed to take away the stigma around asking for guidance and support when it comes to intimacy and love. It’s fun, incredibly valuable, and empowering.

Even if things are already good, there is so much more to be experienced and explored. And to be real, pretty much everyone comes to a point in their lives where things are not thriving exactly the way they desire.

I will leave you with a quote from the genius Napoleon Hill, who very well understood the potential of sexual energy and how important it is for ambitious leaders to include this topic on their pathway to excellence and growth: “The road to genius consists of the development, control, and proper use of sex, love, and romance.”

I’d love to hear if you agree.