Transforming Sexual Shame Into Power

Let’s talk about shame. I want to help you transform shame into personal power. Shame and specifically shame about our sensuality is probably one of the MOST painful and destructive forms of shame that exists. Why? 

Because our sexuality is so deeply connected to our identity. 

When we carry shame in that area, it affects our self expression in the world in a HUGE way. And most people are unaware of this.

It affects our ability to be free & to be authentic.
It affects the connection to the source of our power. 
It hits a really deep spot.

The ‘me too’ movement has men scared to be labeled as a perpetrator. And yet, at the same time they are expected to be assertive and take the lead. It’s confusing. 

This all ties into the topic of shame. Let me explain more deeply how I think that this impacts us:

It's likely that you have experienced some level of sexual shame in your life. And the impact of that is this feeling of separation, being a failure, feeling inadequate, sometimes it's hard to relate with others, etc. 

Transforming that shame and letting it support us towards growth and empowerment supports us in: Choosing courage over fear, having stronger relationships and having a more authentic life. It allows us to take more risks in lie and to just be in this world as an empowered being to bring your full self to this life.

When we do not do this it shows up as a lack of confidence, losing your mojo, not feeling as inspired and motivated as you used to and a general feeling ok just okay-ness in life instead of thriving. 

And most important of all, we get access to our life force energy again. Underneath the shame is a tremendous amount of energy to be accessed. This is how we start to heal and open up to our power and so much more JOY.

If you recognize yourself in this, feel free to reach out and learn what it looks like to take back your power. 

Do you see how holding on to shame has a big impact in your day to day life?