The Fear To Be Seen As A Predator

fear sexuality shame Jul 31, 2022

Let’s talk more about the fear many men have to be seen as a predator. In this post I will share how can you embrace yourself as a being thats desires intimacy without being a creep.

First of all, let’s recognize that our desire for intimacy is part of being a human being. Our survival literally depends on it. That is how deeply engrained it is. 

A lot of men get turned on all the time, and they feel it all the time but it’s not always appropriate to express it. It’s incredibly helpful to learn how to not disconnect from this energy but to actually feel good about it. 

It doesn’t mean that every desire needs to be acted on. Of course it is not always appropriate to express it or to act on our impulses. 

What if instead, you could see the desire that is activated as a life force energy and circulate it through the whole body instead of it being localized in the genitals? 

This is the key for men to not sexually repress themselves and at the same time know how to honor and respect those around them.

What if your turn-on could be an activation of life? What if every beautiful woman is a reminder of the goddess of life and an activation of life force energy inside? 

If you can breath that turn-on in and circulate it in your body to feel open and spacious in it, and grateful for that aliveness reminder, it can teach you a tremendous amount of respect and gratitude for the women that turn you on with their beauty, sensuality, energy and radiance. 

It can become a gift for you and it is about the energy, turn-on, power and the invitation into life, rather than just have the energy sitting in your pelvis and creating a need for any potential outward action, but rather an inward experience.

This is perfect for when a you feel attracted to someone when it’s not appropriate to feel or act on it, and allows you to embrace the activation, turn- on and your own pleasure without feeling like you have to repress it. 

When you suppress it, you suppress your life force energy and this can create a whole lot of other ripple effects that hold you back from your power and potential, more on that later.

If you would like to receive a practice that brings this in reality, feel free to send me a message an I will send it your way. It will change how you show up around other in the most empowering way. 

I would love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Let me know in the comments.

 

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